ChildHood

When I was a kid, I was literally the epitome of the dumbest person alive on the earth, I was good at nothing. I scored perfect zero in every exam that I gave. I knew back of my mind that what a crap of shit I was...I always had a feeling in my mind that something is quite not right. I used to incessantly curse myself and behaved whimsically by shouting too much, running here and there, or crying the whole day.

My family's condition financially and physically was not good at that time, but I always believed that god watches everyone and keeps his eyes on us. My parents were really worried about me and my behavior. They took me to various doctors and one of the doctors suggested that there is some sort of deficiency of vitamin in my body and prescribed me some medicines for the same.

The impact was subtly visible from the medicines but not conspicuously until a miracle happened:
Once, I was at my relative's house and was playing cricket on the road with my cousins. All of a sudden a scooter passed over my head when I was trying to lift the ball from the ground. I was unconscious for about 2 days in the hospital and when I woke up I could feel extreme pain in my brain and things began to change.

I started becoming dexterous in my activities and my mind started to run like a bullet train. I couldn't believe that it was me, I couldn't comprehend the tremendous change I was going through. It was like a dream and I think my parent's tears might have paid off. God might have seen my parents tears and flipped my coin of fate to something good.

Why am I telling you all this? It's because life takes turn very rapidly and if you think you are stuck somewhere in a problem then believe me there is some higher power keeping an eye on you, so don't worry about the consequences, worry only about how hard you are working to achieve your dreams...Dream big, work hard, and leave all rest of the things to god, he will definitely take care of you.

Life is like a box of chocolates and you never know what you're gonna get next :-)

The Philosophy of HappYness :-)

Living is easy, loving is easy, winning and losing are also easy, then what is difficult? Difficult is to be easy.......

Life depends much on what we perceive this world to be and what attitude we have towards life.

When I was a child, my mom used to teach me lessons by enlightening me with some real life anecdotes like; Racing horse has no clue why his master is whipping him, he is whipping him because he wants the horse to win the race. In the same way, when you ask god why he is doing these bad things to you, why only you? Then, he replies back saying that he too wants you to win the race of life...

So, whenever you feel sad try to remember those moments when you were happy, this changes the aura of thoughts around you and suddenly you will start feeling relaxed and euphoric again..

Every human being creates a small world around him/her and only focuses on the things which are close to them. But, what the book of life teaches us is that we should look beyond our aura and discover the horizons...In simple language, if we focus too much on ourselves, then we somehow couldn't comprehend the beautiful things going around us. So, rather we should enjoy the ambience and cherish the small achievements.

Humans are too concerned about their own personal problems but that's not the way of living a great life, rather explore the world and uncanny things, and appreciate other humans for cherishing the beatific peace. Try to live a life such that when you look yourself 50 years from now, you have a feeling that everything you have done in your life is worth it. You should feel proud of yourself and feel different from any other humans alive, you should be the person everyone wants to follow and want to become.

Lead and live a life that is worthy of respect. I know how easy it is to say and how difficult it is to follow, but life teaches us lessons in a hard way, we should never give up on anything we want and try to learn from our mistakes.

If not now, but definitely a time will come when you and I would be looking into each other eyes, holding hands, laughing together hailing loudly that, "Yes! we have done it." :-)

Conundrum of Dreams

It was 5.00 o'clock in the morning and I was still awake questioning to myself, why is it necessary for us to sleep? Why is it that our creator has planned day for the work and night for the sleep? Is there any reason or we just follow what we want to follow? These questions were engendering in my mind while my eyes were conspicuously red and craving for some sleep...Have you ever given some thought to these category of questions and tried to unravel the mystery behind these unsolved why's? 

These phenomenon related to dreams takes place may be because it's the nature's law or probably we live in two different parallel realities : one in which we perceive ourselves to be awake and the other one in which we are dreaming. Yes, it may be a possibility!! Dreaming may be a different reality of our existence, it's hard to explain but think about any moment when you woke up suddenly because of a very bad dream. What happened then? It was a reflex of our body to the world that we were living in our dreams in the real world. Our super conscious mind do reacts to such stimulus, just like when a pin is pricked into our body it responds spontaneously. Life is full of mysteries and there are many things going around us still unnoticed. 

Have you ever imagined why in our dreams we can't see our self as a different person, as in we are watching a different person? We always see ourselves to be us and not some different entity...Why is it so? 

The world we call Dreams may be the reality and the one we call real may be an illusion...who knows? 

Imagine that you might be living in the dream of a different person now and acting as a character of his dream. The person watching the dream has no control over what he is going to see in his dreams and you play different roles in each separate dreams. So, this can be compared to the origin of the Universe too. Think for a second that god is the one who is watching a dream and we all are his characters in that dream. The god here is the one who created an imaginary Universe in his dream. We all are playing our parts in his dreams but we can't comprehend that we are living in his dream. That's why we say that god is omnipresent, omnipotent and omniscient because he is the creator of his dream and is watching everything that is going on in his dream (omnipresent), he can create or destroy any character of his dream(omnipotent) and he is the one knowing everything in his dream(omniscient). But one of the enigmatic fact is that he can't control his dream just like we can't. We are living in his dream and we have our own different parts to play. So don't blame him for what you are because he can't control his dream. It's you who are going to change your destinies not him.

The world is full of mysteries and different perceptions. Dream big, work hard and change your illusionary life into something that is beyond perceptions and oblivion.

F.R.I.E.N.D.S forever :-*

It all began with a smile,

When I was terrified imagining about a new life,

Unaware of what's gonna happen in my future,

I gave my hands to the buddies standing right by my side.

Though earlier it seemed tough,

But life ran smoothly having friends around me,

Not only did we had fun but life just went on crazy,

All my fears and griefs turned into something similar to hazy,

Friends are what life is all about,

Together we stand and divided we fall,

Friendship is the only blessing that always remains till eternity for sure.

Kisne??

Kisne kaha tha e dost ki aasmaan ki uchaiyon ko mat chuna,

Kisne kaha tha e dost ki dosti ke naam pe pyaar kisise mat karna,

Kisne kaha tha e dost ki maa baap ko tere pyaar ki jarurat nhi,

Kisne kaha e dost ki zindgi me teri ab koi bhi kami nhi.

Kehne waale keh gaye bas reh gaya hai tu tahna yahan,

Mukaddar ke naam pe simat gaya hai ab tera ye sara jahan,

Waqt abhi bhi hai e sikandar badal de apne har ek pal safa ko,

Kehne ka mauka ab tera hai dikhlaade un kehne waalon ko,

Waqt nhi rehta ek sa agar man me kuch paane ki talaash ho,

Tufaan bhi palat leta hai rukh apna agar tujhme kuch aur jeene ki aas ho.

The Change

I could see the change,

We do not forever remain the same,

Some of the moments are memorable,

And rest fades away within the time frame.

I could feel the pain,

When things pass out of my hands,

The way I used to live my life,

Is not anymore the same.

It's a change that is inevitable,

Causing hunger for a life that is insatiable,

Still, there is some part of me deep within myself,

Resisting the chain of endless reminiscences that remains.

Super Dad Forever

Today I was watching India vs Pakistan world cup match and was very excited about the game, you all must be too. But I know a guy who would be surely super excited for this match... Guess who? That person is my dad :-). He is super crazy for cricket, if anytime any cricket match of India is in progress, then he literally forgets about the world and do not care what is going on around him and there is a reason why he is such a cricket freak :-p. There is a whole long history behind this. Here it goes:

My father was born and raised in a small village and as a child there was no much activity to pursue on rather than to play Cricket, so as a result, an aptitude towards this game engendered in him. He enjoyed playing Cricket like he was the Sachin Tendulkar of his era, even though my family members didn't support him and didn't give a crap for his interest in this field, he never abdicated playing it and neither lost his interest. 

I still remember the time when I was very young and he always used to take me along with him if any ongoing tournaments were on run. I don't recall the reason why, but I think I acted as a catalyst to perform well for the match as no father would want to perform poorly in front of his child. Finally, after all his hard work, practice and experience, he became the captain of his team and stayed the same till he retired from Cricket. 

He may not be capable of playing now because of his age, but still I see glitter in his eyes when he watches any Cricket match and often gives his suggestions to the players even after knowing that they could not listen to him in the television. I guess, maybe he sees himself playing in these matches or maybe he wishes he could play a bit more. But, what I see in him is a hope, a true inspiration and a passion for the things you love. Though I may not become as great as my father, but what I can become is a caring child who will always be there for him no matter what... I will try to become the bat by which he used to score his hundreds and cherished every moment of his life...
This whole story is dedicated to my dad :-* I love him and be always will but there is a message for all of you too....

Always remember no matter what happens in your life, never leave your parents in any case because you are their hope, their life, their dreams and above all their children...
Love your parents and make them proud: -)